:: ebb and flow

Life is full of changes. Relationships ebb and flow. The danger rests not in the valleys, but in losing hope that you will not see a summit again. 

Remain committed. Remain moving towards your tomorrow, learning from yesterday to make it better…more resilient, and strikingly beautiful. 

No one has arrived. We are all emerging. Transforming. Renewing. 

:: BDSM on a Budget (Bondage Furniture)


I’m sure we would all love a room filled with a collection of toys and furniture that would rival any dungeon. Most; however, have things like a budget to consider. Not to mention explaining to your kids why they had to give up a bedroom that is always locked, LOL.

One of the main concerns about BDSM furniture is that it only has one purpose. And while that purpose is fucking amazing, it’s often hard to justify spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on a spanking bench or table.

img_0168The bondage bench on the right is a very simple piece, but still, people may be concerned with having hooks and d rings that to us have obvious intentions. An alternative might be a simple shoe shelf. shoe shelf

tumblr_miqilyucep1rkg6ufo1_500This low profile table looks stunning, plus it could be hidden under the bed pretty easily; however, again, if your concerned about spending probably $500 on it, think outside of the box and consider a mechanics creeper.


workout benchUse an adjustable weight bench for lots of fun as a bondage table. You can set it to flat, incline or decline positions, and there are plenty of places to secure those arms and legs.

Need a spanking bench? Consider an inexpensive foot stool like the one below.


No matter what kind of furniture you want, there will be an alternative that will be a fraction of the cost, plus it will have more than one purpose. You don’t have to break the bank to have a little fun.