The D/s between Kasai and I rests in how we connect sexually. In nearly every other aspect of our lives, we live and move together pretty mutually. During the past month or so, from Kasai’s sickness to mine, I somehow lost the art of daily dominance.
Even though I am Kasai’s Dom sexually, she needs me to be her Dom all the time.
Day in. Day out.
She needs to feel my Dominance outside of the bedroom (though she really needs to feel it there too).
It’s not that Kasai wants me to control her life – but she needs to know I am her Dom all day long.
Could be a simply assignment to complete.
Or maybe a certain way to dress.
Kasai needs to feel my Dominance throughout the day – not just when we have sex.
We are, after all, sexual in nature, so it makes sense.