It’s happens too easy. The daily grind catches up, and life happens. You get caught up in other areas and some fall off.
Ever notice that if you’re apart from your lover that when you return, things are fresh? Of course, you have. Even a weekend apart from each other can have a wonderful effect. The separation sucks, but the reunion is sweet.
In a D/s relationship, it’s really no different. Whether it’s a 24/7 life or not, life can take a toll on it, just like it does the rest of a relationship.
Maybe you had plans, goals, or dreams – and they got lost somewhere.
A little alone time can help. Take 1 hour a week to review where you’ve been and where you want to go. Send your partner on a weekend outing. Take time to journal and write out your thoughts. Create a space for you and your lover to talk freely and openly.