Sometimes we talk about BDSM facets to a degree, that we often forget to talk about things many people take for granted. Today – it’s the female orgasm(s)!
I suppose one might say that there is only one type of orgasm, but several ways to induce it. Others might say that there are different levels or intensities of orgasms. No matter how you look at it, I’m continuing on.
The Clitoral Orgasm. Probably the most common orgasm. It can be induced by oral stimulation, the use of hands, or other instruments. Not every clitoris responds the same, but most females report that it is intense – yet not as “deep” as others. It’s also a great way to warm up for more!
Vaginal Orgasm. This one begins inside the vagina and can feel focused in the stomach area, or possibly spread from there. The contractions can be deep, and usually takes a little longer to achieve (though not always). Solid rhythmic thrusting is often the go to method for inducing it.
The G-Spot Orgasm. This is the body-shaker orgasm. The climax can explode throughout the entire body. If you’ve never played with the G-Spot, it’s a couple inches inside the vagina, and has a different texture to it than the rest – feels like a course sponge. During arousal it will become more pronounced, and easier to find. While its possible to achieve with a dildo or cock, it’s easiest to achieve using the hands. Have your partner lay down on her back, and insert your middle and ring finger – use a combination of the “come-here” motion, and thrusting up & down.
Squirting Orgasm. Typically from the G-Spot stimulation, the squirting orgasm is very profound. The orgasm can be so intense that the woman often feels as though they were high afterwards. As such, it creates a deep bond. It can be uncomfortable at first, because the woman may feel as though she she needs to pee, and may inadvertently quiet herself and not orgasm. But it’s totally natural, it’s not pee, and everyone woman can achieve it. It is also often induced by using a Hitachi Wand right on her vaginal opening.
Anal Orgasm. There is a strong stigma surrounding anal sex in society, resulting in most women not desiring to attempt it. But through a lot of communication and trust, and a little bit of building up, anal play can be rather enjoyable. Many women report a deep orgasm resulting from anal play – be it from the use of toys or cock.
Mental, Skin & Oral Orgasm. If something can make you wet – it can ultimately led to an orgasm. These are more rare than the G-Spot, squirting, and anal orgasms; but they are possible. Some report having the O while being spanked, others by giving oral to their partner, some by stimulating their breasts. Big key here is patience.
Knowing how and where your woman can orgasm can lead to a deeper bond, and of course – amazing sex. But it requires that you fuck for more than yourself – you have to be present, to listen and feel your partner, to communicate and to be patient.