:: Give the Best Blow Job Ever

While I’m not a fan of long posts, it seemed best to not separate this one.  So, below is a Top Eleven (because 10 just ins’t enough) tips on how to give an amazing blow job:

TIP 1: Enjoy it!

UnknownThis is hands down the biggest tip to give the most amazing blow job in history! If your guy sees, hears, and feels you enjoying what you’re doing, it’s going to be a rush for him. I can’t say it enough – enjoy it, draw pleasure from it, be enthusiastic. Talk to him, tell him you love his cock, you love sucking on his cock, you love his cock in your mouth – that will drive him crazy with desire. Look at him. Touch yourself. Demonstrating pleasure is the Number One Tip to giving an amazing blow job!

TIP 2: Watch Him

Talking about what he likes, and how much he likes it is great, but have you ever watched your man masturbate? Give him some lube, lay down next to him, and ask him to make himself come. Watch his grip, how hard he squeezes. Watch his stroke – is it long, or short – does he change it up? How long does he continue to stroke his cock after he has come? You can learn a hell of a lot by watching your guy take care of himself.

TIP 3: Talk to Him

Have you ever asked your guy what he likes, or how he likes it? If you ask general questions like “Do you like what I do” He probably answers “I love what you do”. If you want an honest answer – ask specific questions. Thing is, most people don’t know how to vocalize specifics when it comes to sex, some fear rejection, others fear their partner being hurt. But if you ask with a sincere desire to please, you’re bound to learn a thing or two.

As you’re going down on him – talk to him then too. Tell him you love what your doing. Tell him you love making him come. After doing something specific ask him if he liked it (maybe you just sucked on his balls so ask “You love it when I suck on your balls like that?”) or tell him you loved doing that (“I love sucking on your balls like that”).

TIP 3: Use Them Hands

You probably can’t use your mouth for the entire time, so now that you know how your guy uses his hands – you know better on how to use yours! Most guys have a long history of using their hands, and we know that hands feel amazing! So use yours too. They can stroke his cock, rub his balls, stomach, perineum, and ass. Hands give your mouth and jaw a break – but you can also give your hands a break by changing your grip – use an open grip, a closed grip, a tight one, whole hand or just thumb and forefinger. Trying using both hands. Try twisting your grip as it strokes his cock. Try stroking his cock and sucking/licking the head of his cock. Try it all!

 

TIP 4: Know Your Anatomy

I just mentioned a few specific parts, so it’s worth talking more in depth about them. You’ll probably notice if you watch your man stroke his cock, that he vary’s between a long stroke (from base to head) and a short stroke (focus on the head of his cock) as well as his grip – how much constriction he puts on his shaft and how his fingers slide over the head. An erection is caused by blood – this is why a cock ring can make it feel harder or more intense for you both – so when spending time on the shaft – remember that if properly lubed it’s almost impossible to grip too tight.

While the head of the cock has a ton of nerves, it’s actually most sensitive after a guy comes (try sucking on it immediately after he comes to see!).  The feeling of your hand sliding over the head of his cock from his shaft is amazing – it’s a fluttering feeling, and doing that alone can cause him to come.

The balls are not quite as sensitive as the head; however, your guy probably wants to see you suck on or lick his balls in addition to you using your hands. When using your hands, remember it’s not like his shaft – too tight will hurt! LOL. You can use an open grip using your thumb and forefinger at the base of his ball sack to grip, but any tight grip around his actual testicles is bound to make him wince. When you have a testicle in your mouth, try humming or moaning – the sensation can be felt.

The perineum is the area is sensitive as well, and while it’s a visual stimuli to watch a woman use her tongue there, if you want him to feel it, stroke it with your thumb. His asshole is the same way – it’s a sensitive area and whether you use your mouth or your finger, it’s bound to get him going hotter. And just like you only want yours played with lube, use a dab of lube before you stroke or insert your finger or toy. Every guy is different, so you’ll have to experiment to see what your loves or doesn’t.

TIP 5: Use That Tongue

tumblr_mia088VdQQ1r3si7eo1_500Using your tongue on a guys cock give s a crazy rush to your man. It makes him feel high, which in turn of course feels good. Use your tongue in a swirling pattern around the tip of his cock. Lick his cock from base to tip. With cock in mouth, slide your tongue out of your mouth. Lick his balls and his ass. Using your tongue puts your face in a good position to make eye contact with him as well.

TIP 6: Gagging and Saliva

A wet blow job is a great blow job. Don’t swallow your saliva as you are giving head – rather, allow it to lubricate your mans cock. Not to mention, the sight of you drooling over his cock gives an instant high as well. When it comes to gagging – listen to me on this – don’t worry about it! You might be concerned about it for one reason or another, but your guy probably loves it when you gag on his cock. That coupled with you continuing gives  a mad rush to your guy – it really demonstrates your desire for him and his cock when you start gagging, but want more. You’ll probably notice that a thicker saliva will become present when you gag – this is your body’s way of trying to lubricate itself, and will only help you out!

TIP 7: Deep Throat

Only natural to be next after talking about gagging. Yes, it’s like every mans desire for their partner to take all of his cock into their mouth. And as true as that is, don’t beat yourself up if you can’t right now, or if it takes you longer to take more of him in, after all – it’s not natural to slide something into your throat and then slide it back out. When trying to take more of his cock in, your jaw needs to be relaxed. Breath through your nose (and don’t forget to breath!). When you’ve taken him in as far as you can and you can feel yourself begin to gag – try to calm down and hold him there. Remember, your guy doesn’t mind if you gag, so after a few seconds, slide him out and then go again.

If you want to practice, use your toothbrush to clean the back of your tongue – hold it as far back to help to learn about your gag reflex, and how to relax yourself. You can also use a dildo as well.

While I believe that every woman has the capability to deep throat, not every woman can – and that’s okay. You shouldn’t pressure yourself or feel bad if you can’t now – or if it takes a long time to figure it out.

TIP 8: Watch Porn

Reading articles and talking about sucking cock can take you a long ways – but sometimes the best learning stimuli is watching it. So, watch some porn – the best is stuff that’s been home made – not produced by the industry. Not that the industry doesn’t know how to demonstrate a good cock sucking (it does), but if you want to know what women are doing, and what guys are enjoying it’s just more “real” to watch “real people”. To make this tip hotter, put some on without him knowing and get ‘caught’ watching it, then explain why you’re watching it. To be sure, it’s okay to watch it together and talk about it….then put it into practice!

Bonus tip – make your own! Hand him or just set up a camera to record the experience. When recording, don’t be focused on the camera (even though looking at it, and even speaking to it is hot as shit when he watches it later) – just be focused on giving him pleasure. And with the rise of the selfie, use your camera to take one during the moment – send it to him later to get his mind on you!

TIP 9: Location, Location, Location

Where and when do you give your guy a blow job? The answer is….right here, right now, lol. But seriously, your guy would be down with a blow job anytime, anywhere. Could be first thing in the morning, or the last thing at night. Could be while watching television on the couch, or as soon as he comes home. Could be in the shower or as the best desert ever after supper. In the car or in the back yard. Slip away into your bedroom while company is over. While at the theater or other semi-public space. Give him a reason to have a great day right before he goes to work. Surprise him with the best lunch date ever! Did he have a bad day? Nothing makes it better like a blow job. Did he have a great day? Nothing makes it even greater than a blow job. (see the pattern there?) If you have scenes that are planned out, and you’re concerned about ruining plans – don’t be. I can promise you that every good plan is not as good as a blow job, lol. Seriously though, don’t be focused on what may or may not be planned, be focused on giving him pleasure. If he stops you (which I doubt) – feel the gratification that he’s going to have one thing on his mind for the rest of the day.

Bonus Tip: Make a bucket list – where are all the places and all the times you would like to make your man come? Have fun trying to get them all checked off – then add to it and keep it going!

TIP 10: The Big Finish

tumblr_n699ttvajA1rmxgp0o9_400Do you spit or swallow? The age old question that seem to haunt some people. To tackle this tip – lets first talk bout the mental aspect of it – mainly that your guy probably doesn’t care, he’s just happy that you spent some quality time on him. That said, there is a portion of him that does care. He doesn’t want to see you spit his come into a tissue or the sink like it’s garbage.

That said, you don’t have to have you mans cock in your mouth when he comes. He probably feels that the sexiest make up you can wear is his come – so if you’re not to the point of having him come in your mouth, have him come on your face. When you do – show your desire by opening your mouth or sticking your tongue out as if your trying to catch it. Some guys shoot with a lot of pressure, others don’t – just remember to have your eyes closed to avoid a sting.

After he has come, suck on his cock – clean him up with your mouth and tongue and fingers. It’s okay to play with his come! If you can take his entire load in your mouth, let him see it before and after you swallow. And for a big finish – give your guy the deepest kiss ever right after.

Truth be told, your guy probably has a come fetish – he wants or needs to see his come on you in every possible way, from every angle, in your mouth, on your face, breasts, dripping from your mouth your pussy and your ass, on your tongue, on your pussy, your stomach – he wants to see you lick it, suck it off your fingers or from his body – He wants to see if on your lips, your nipples, and neck (get the picture? LOL).

Tip 11: Enjoy it

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Have to stop where I started. If there’s ONE thing you can do to give your man the BEST blow job ever, it’s this – you need to demonstrate that you are enjoying what you are doing. This is done by the noises you make (gagging, saying “hhmmmm”, etc) the things you say (I LOVE your cock!), the expressions on your face (eye contact, smiling, etc) and the things you do (open mouth when he comes, variety between sucking, stroking, etc). You can also demonstrate that you are enjoying it by paying attention to yourself – finger your clit, rub your breasts & nipples, stick a finger in your pussy – nothing says your turned on like watching you touch yourself! It’s done by not doing things like making faces when he comes, or squeezing your eyes so tight as he comes that it looks like this is the worst moment of your day.

Odds are, your guy spends a lot of time on pleasuring you – from intense foreplay, to giving you multiple orgasms, spanking you, and the list goes on. This is one thing that you can do for your man that is focused on your giving him pleasure. So when you have his cock in your mouth – do so as if to say “thank you”!

There will probably be times when you’re both going to laugh. There may be other times when you’ll say something like “Damn, that was  a lot of come!” (btw, that’s always hot to hear) because you tried to take all of his come in your mouth and you couldn’t. Point is, you need to enjoy it, and not worry so much.

10 thoughts on “:: Give the Best Blow Job Ever

  1. Thoroughly enjoyed these tips. 😉 This post affirms what I believed to be true, and gave me something new to consider/try. Another way to show enthusiasm (I think) is to ride/grind a leg, arm or hand of his if accessible.

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  2. Noises, expressions, gagging Oh my! That was the best written blog on giving your man pleasure that I’ve ever read. It is in the little things, the way we show our man how much we enjoy giving him pleasure.
    Purr-fect!

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