:: Kinky Sex Tip #2

Kinky Sex Tip, BDSM MemeThere are a lot of distractions in this thing we call life. Some of them can’t be avoided, but if we pay too much attention to them – our relationships suffer. It seems harder to not become distracted, as our connection with the world is just one gadget away.

Most homes have more gadgets that connect to the internet than there are people – phones, computers, laptops, pads, pods, television, ebooks, google glasses, watches – and the list goes on and on.

None of these things are bad in and of themselves – they don’t conspire against anyone. Quite the opposite, they only do what their owners want them to do. They can all be unplugged.

And that’s what we need sometimes – to unplug, even for a short period of time. The consequence is epic.

What it tells our lover is – you are more important to me. You have my attention. All of it. I am yours. I want and desire your time and to give you myself.

Maybe it’s for a conversation, a dinner, or more intimate moments – but we need to be able to shut off the world. It shouldn’t just be a romantic thing we do, it needs to be habitual.

We can say with our words that all of these other things aren’t more important, but we demonstrate otherwise if we are constantly distracted by them.

Be here.

Now.

And while you’re at it, a good spanking is always a positive sign of saying “you’ve got my full attention”

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