:: Kinky Sex Tip #3 – Desire

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Every poll tells us that guys masturbate. Quite often it seems. While there have been a few moments where I’ve taken care of business while in the same house with Kasai, it hasn’t been that often. But it has happened over the course of 17 years.

Gals, your initial reaction could be a “what the fuck are you doing” – which will surely lead to a potential high point drowning, or it could be “Hmmm – let me finish what you started”.

I’d suggest the second alternative – for a few reasons. First, it says: I’m confident – I’m better at this than you – that’s what I’m here for – I want to help. Let’s linger on this last one, and really just the few words of “I want to..”

Those words when coupled with the physical connection are mesmerizing. It demonstrates your desire for him, and that as I’ll try to express through most of these kinky sex tips is the #1 sex tip of all time.

Desire.

And that’s Kinky Sex Tip #3 – it’s not about your guy masturbating, and it’s not about you finishing the job – it’s desire.

Guys want to be wanted. They want to feel like their sexual satisfaction is important to you. There are a thousands ways to reveal this to your man, but nothing says it quite like “I’m going to make you come, because I enjoy it – I want to – I love it”.

Now, take it a step further – instead of it being reactionary – make a plan out of it. Go to your favorite porn site and look up something racy to play that will last a few minutes – maybe it’s a full on scene, maybe it’s a compilation video. Put your laptop on the bed and let it play – and tell your beau to come into the room for a minute.

After he comes in, he’ll be quite startled, but as you tell him to lay back, and take care of him, I can promise you – he’ll be ecstatic. You know that feeling you get after losing track of your orgasms – that’s where he’ll be.

Demonstrating desire has an immeasurable affect on a relationship. You can be as slutty or sweet as you want to. Your individual creativity will set the moment(s) apart. Desire also has one of the highest ROI’s of all relational aspects. What you give – you are bound to receive.

16 thoughts on “:: Kinky Sex Tip #3 – Desire

  1. I like your posts. But my man will never need to masturbate ..well unless i tell him to ..so i can watch lol lol hehe .. i am serious ..but i understand what u say .. i am very tactile .. lol lol lol have a great week ..

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  2. I LOVE to have a cock in my mouth. I also LOVE to watch him stroke himself to orgasm, especially when it ends up dripping from my cheeks. I work very hard to make sure my Sir NEVER doubts he is desired. Thank you for the suggestion of a video on the laptop. Sounds like a GREAT plan for tonight. 🙂

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  3. I read once that, though guys appreciate the thought, we cannot do it as well as he can himself. After that, I just try to enhance the activity while he does himself (and I get to be his target).

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    1. I know where your coming from, and while a guy can probably finish in record time by himself, it’s nowhere near the same as when his lover is touching him. That said – enhancing to any degree is amazing! Add the best target ever, and it’s a “Legen…wait for it…dary” moment.

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  4. I’m quite surprised by the “(I make sure) my man never needs to masturbate” comments. To me, taking time to pleasure yourself has very little to do with availability or skills of a partner… But focusing back on the post’s topic: I agree that feeling desired is a very strong aphrodisiac, and can definitely make for more intimacy.

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