:: Kinky Sex Tip #6 | Evolutions

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It’s important to know where you want to go, otherwise, you’ll get lost. You may get lost anyways, but if you have some kind of an idea – some kind of vision, then you can begin to plan a route to get there.

Most people (I’m assuming) want to be passionate lovers. They want to demonstrate their devotion, their adoration, their desire to please their partner. In a D/s dynamic, they want to demonstrate their Dominance and their submission.

You have to know where you’re at. What you want. How you want it. Where you want to go. That takes honest communication. It also takes a lot of trust.

You’ll never truly be “Fuck Yes” lovers if you don’t talk. If you don’t share your passions and desires.

You’ll never get there without going through the “Okay, I’m Ready” – it’s a process. And while you’ll constantly be emerging, you have to make some movement. That requires some guidance and willingness.

And many things begin with a few “Oh My God” moments. You’re embarking on something new – most people don’t experience kink of any sort the first time without this phase.

Whether it’s a facial, anal, water sports, wax, clamps, or any other kink – to include non-intercourse areas as well, it’s a process. Life isn’t like porn – you don’t just slam your (seemingly non lubricated) cock into her ass and expect her to have a squirting orgasm from it on the first try.

But you know that you want her to eventually orgasm through anal sex (or whatever your goals are)- so develop a way to get there. Because once you get to the “Fuck Yes!” phase it really is fucking incredible.

16 thoughts on “:: Kinky Sex Tip #6 | Evolutions

  1. No, you can come on my face, that’s not new anymore (unless you ejaculate hot sauce or anything) I always take my expensive contact lenses out before any kind of sex play, so it’s good.

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  2. Sometimes it’s a trade-off. I did a deal with one lover – a facial in exchange for my eating and drinking nothing but pineapple and its juice for three days straight. She loved the result. Consequently whenever she was on her period I’d go on my “pineapple detox” as we called it. We both had something to look forward to.

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  3. I asked if my man could do this, I have no problem swallowing so I don’t see an issue. I have 2, maybe 3 nights before he leaves for work to get it. I’m looking forward to it.

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      1. We did it..was actually kinda funny, which relieved any tension. Wasn’t bad but not sure if he wants to do it again. I wouldn’t mind.

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  4. “You’ll never truly be “Fuck Yes” lovers if you don’t talk. If you don’t share your passions and desires.”
    This is one of the truest lines I have ever read. “Fuck Yes” is not just about the “Fuck”, but the complete and total connection of two people. Thank you for your posts and advice. I love them!

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    1. Thank you for your kind words!
      Yes, in this case the word ‘Fuck’ is used as an adjective to denote that primal, intimate, and otherworldly connection we share and proclaim in the the word “Yes!”
      So, not only is it a “YES!” moment, it’s a “FUCK YES!!” moment 🙂

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