Whether or not your giving a blow job, or just giving amazing oral, these tips and techniques will make the moment go from “Ah, thanks babe” to “Damn woman, that was fucking amazing!’
For a much more detailed post, read the previous Top 11 (because ten is never enough): ::Give the Best Blow Job Ever
Tip 1: Multi-Task.
Your mouth is the star of the show, but let your hands get some action as well. From touching yourself to stroking his cock as you let your mouth take a break or focus on just the head, the extra-sensory will work wonders – as does a pump and swirl.
Tip 2: Eye Contact
Making eye contact says “I fucking love what I’m doing” like almost nothing else. You can’t make eye contact if your mouth is full, so as your using your tongue or stroking his cock, look at him. Give him a sexy wink to take this tip to the next phase.
Tip 3: Vocalize
Nothing says “I love sucking on your cock” quite like saying “I love sucking on your cock”. Don’t forget a few “hmmms” along the way as well. Tell him you love it when he comes. It’s great to be specific too. Ask if he likes what your doing.
Tip 4: Time Now
If there was ever a perfect time – it’s right now. Now could be 1st thing in the morning. It could be when you’re out on a date. It could right before leaving the house to go to some place else. It could be during lunch or for desert. These are all great “nows”.
Tip 5: No Dress Code
Because the perfect time is now, that means that sometimes you might be dressed up to the nines. Other times, you may have on nothing but a necklace. Either extreme and everything in between is perfect. It’s okay to get dressed up just to please him too. The thing is, just don’t get stuck in a routine.
Tip 6: Let your fingers do some Walking
You probably enjoy having your ass played with don’t you? From fingers to anilingus to having toys and his cock – it feels good. So, let your fingers drift to his perineum and ass as well. Just like you’d demand lube when he plays with your ass, same applies for his.
Tip 7: To Swallow or Not to Swallow
Here it is…when a guy climaxes it is a very personal and intimate moment. In my opinion, coming in Kasai’s mouth or on her face is even more intimate than anywhere else. Spitting is received as “Ewe! I fucking can’t believe I did that”. So, here’s the tip – whatever amount of cum you get in your mouth – swallow it. I’m not suggesting you have to take the whole load, but take in what you can.
Tip 8: Don’t finish
After he comes, continue to stroke and suck him off – it’ll drive him nuts. To take this tip to the next level, clean him up with your mouth and tongue. Same goes for your hands and face as well. Nothing says “I fucking love your cum” more than licking yourself and your partner clean.
Tip 9: A Kiss
It may seem too kinky, taboo, or otherwise dirty, but give your man a passionate kiss right afterwards. It’s okay if there’s still some cum on your lips or lingering in your mouth, it’s ours.
Tip 10: Enthusiasm is Everything
You don’t have to choke on his cock like a pornstar, but look and act like you are enjoying yourself. After all, you can make him explode into a sea of ecstasy with just using your mouth. You are the one making him moan and grunt. Smile, giggle, slap your face with it, kiss it, take a selfie if you need to, just show that you love doing what your doing.
Tip 11: Make a Bucket List
Yup, make a bucket list and have fun!
Fun, fun, fun! 😮
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Indeed!
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I love giving these and these things are always things I try to remember.
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🙂
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Well I just have to comment. You just hit the ‘head’ with the nail here. Every point is on the button. It’s also the beauty of teaching yours to do what ‘you’ like.
Hmmm, reminiscing over the business attire blow job and the hasty head… Hmmm indeed.
Sat having early morning coffee watching the world walking by. I now look at those women rushing to their place of work – I wonder, have you, do you, would you.
It’s no good, I need to reblogged this. Well done Sir.
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Business attire is amazing attire!
Thanks for your kind words.
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Reblogged this on There is ALWAYS time for Coffee and commented:
Worth reading
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Reblogged this on thewillingsubmissive and commented:
Good tips 😉
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I totally agree that there is something incredibly intimate about having Sir cum on my face. He has and will fill my mouth on occasion, but he actually prefers to finish where he can see it dripping from my cheeks and off my lips. I LOVE to take him from soft to rock hard against my tongue. Thank you for the great reminders. I actually need to go, I have someone to do RIGHT NOW! 🙂
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Have fun!
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I love starting my husbands blow job when he is soft. 🙂 I love to watch him grow.
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Thank you, we did, and my Sir sends his gratitude for your suggestions. 🙂
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I love giving my darling husband a blow job. I just hate the taste of his cum. After many years he knows this & usually warms me. It usually taste so thick and so bad I can’t stand it and I usually gag. Which I’m sure use to offend my husband. I’ve told I can’t help it.
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The saddest thing on the face of the earth is to have to be able to offer all of this, expect nothing in return, yet have it refused. The mind boggles.
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Peeps, I typically “like” all my comments that are left, but I’m finding it hard to like yours, I hope you understand. I do appreciate your stopping by and sharing your thoughts 🙂
I can’t imagine that, it boggles my mind too. In my opinion, every relationship – including every D/s dynamic has a give & take – a yin & yang – a give & receive. I couldn’t imagine – unless I had a specific planned dynamic scene in mind and couldn’t change it – refusing to allow Kasai to offer herself in this way. I hope that this is in your past, and if not, I hope this passes soon for you.
Best to you Peep!
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Hopefully a bump in the road. Thanks 🙂
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BoPeep, Sending good thoughts your way. HUGS
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Hugs, Peep.
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I crave this kind of service and offer it as much as possible. There is no obligation because it is freely given and lovingly received and welcomed.
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I’m sure the craving is felt by Coach as well!
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OK, I’ll get on it right away…bye!!
Ash
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Have fun!
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Oh we did, we really did! 🙂
Ash
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Soooo…. Sir Knight is loving all the oral attentions I give (with the above tips very much in play), and we actually had an “oral day” today, at his suggestion! He asked me to shave him too 🙂 In just the past month or so, I’ve encouraged my sometimes up-tight and proper Knight to come in my mouth (heretofore he always pulled my face off at “the moment”). After 22 years, he finally acquiesced to come in my mouth, clearly enjoyed the experience, and I know looks forward to repeat performances, which I very much want to do (it has also removed all of his excuses not to return the favor for me, and learn it’s not as “nasty” as he thought). HOWEVER, I was shocked at his taste, it was almost toxic/bitter/chemical-like, and it was all I could do to swallow without gagging or throwing up. I know diet supposedly has something to do with this, pineapples and fruit are good; however he is a pretty clean eater, lots of fruits and whole grains, little red meat or other foods that are known to contribute to “offensive cum flavors.” I don’t know what to do about this and don’t want to tell him for fear of shutting him back down… today after lavish tongue and mouth attentions, I finished him in the last seconds with my hand because the thought of the taste was already making me gag. He said nothing, wouldn’t… but I couldn’t help but think he was hoping to come in my mouth again. What’s a girl to do?
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DD sometimes when my Sir tastes metallic, it has been zinc in his vitamins. He finishes in my mouth but I open and let it drip down my chin. Evidently, that is a hot visual. 😉
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Yeah, SK is a big vitamin guy.., and that’s not gonna change. I really was psyching myself up this time, breathing through my nose in prep of NOT breathing when he came to try not to taste, but the gag reflex overcame me. Seriously, it burned my throat last time. I was so looking
forward to that “lap it up and mmmmm” action, and it was all I could do not to audibly gag. Not sure I can do your trick! Sigh
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Mints
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That is definitely a hot visual btw.
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Diet can play a role, but so does hydration. Healthy meals filled with fruits + enough water to produce clear urine, coupled with a healthy lifestyle should be good. That said – every guy is going to taste different. Some may still have strong taste.
The first time I tried black jack gum, I spit it out. But I still had 4 more pieces in the pack, so I tried again. By the final piece, I actually enjoyed it and bought another pack. Just a thought.
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Emerging Dom you never disappoint. I get no complaints from my Sir, Hmmmha.. lol..His cum is delightful! He drinks a lot of water and eats pineapples. Hope that helps some of the ladies. 😉
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Great tips!
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