:: Kinky Sex Tip #4 | An Amazing Blow Job

Whether or not your giving a blow job, or just giving amazing oral, these tips and techniques will make the moment go from “Ah, thanks babe” to “Damn woman, that was fucking amazing!’

For a much more detailed post, read the previous Top 11 (because ten is never enough): ::Give the Best Blow Job Ever

Tip 1: Multi-Task.

Your mouth is the star of the show, but let your hands get some action as well. From touching yourself to stroking his cock as you let your mouth take a break or focus on just the head, the extra-sensory will work wonders – as does a pump and swirl.

Tip 2: Eye Contact

Making eye contact says “I fucking love what I’m doing” like almost nothing else. You can’t make eye contact if your mouth is full, so as your using your tongue or stroking his cock, look at him. Give him a sexy wink to take this tip to the next phase.

Tip 3: Vocalize

Nothing says “I love sucking on your cock” quite like saying “I love sucking on your cock”. Don’t forget a few “hmmms” along the way as well. Tell him you love it when he comes. It’s great to be specific too. Ask if he likes what your doing.

Tip 4: Time Now

If there was ever a perfect time – it’s right now. Now could be 1st thing in the morning. It could be when you’re out on a date. It could right before leaving the house to go to some place else. It could be during lunch or for desert. These are all great “nows”.

Tip 5: No Dress Code

Because the perfect time is now, that means that sometimes you might be dressed up to the nines. Other times, you may have on nothing but a necklace. Either extreme and everything in between is perfect. It’s okay to get dressed up just to please him too. The thing is, just don’t get stuck in a routine.

Tip 6: Let your fingers do some Walking

You probably enjoy having your ass played with don’t you? From fingers to anilingus to having toys and his cock  – it feels good. So, let your fingers drift to his perineum and ass as well. Just like you’d demand lube when he plays with your ass, same applies for his.

Tip 7: To Swallow or Not to Swallow

Here it is…when a guy climaxes it is a very personal and intimate moment. In my opinion, coming in Kasai’s mouth or on her face is even more intimate than anywhere else. Spitting is received as “Ewe! I fucking can’t believe I did that”. So, here’s the tip – whatever amount of cum you get in your mouth – swallow it. I’m not suggesting you have to take the whole load, but take in what you can.

Tip 8: Don’t finish

After he comes, continue to stroke and suck him off – it’ll drive him nuts. To take this tip to the next level, clean him up with your mouth and tongue. Same goes for your hands and face as well. Nothing says “I fucking love your cum” more than licking yourself and your partner clean.

Tip 9: A Kiss 

It may seem too kinky, taboo, or otherwise dirty, but give your man a passionate kiss right afterwards. It’s okay if there’s still some cum on your lips or lingering in your mouth, it’s ours.

Tip 10: Enthusiasm is Everything

You don’t have to choke on his cock like a pornstar, but look and act like you are enjoying yourself. After all, you can make him explode into a sea of ecstasy with just using your mouth. You are the one making him moan and grunt. Smile, giggle, slap your face with it, kiss it, take a selfie if you need to, just show that you love doing what your doing.

Tip 11: Make a Bucket List

Yup, make a bucket list and have fun!

:: Kinky Sex Tip #3 – Desire

Every poll tells us that guys masturbate. Quite often it seems. While there have been a few moments where I’ve taken care of business while in the same house with Kasai, it hasn’t been that often. But it has happened over the course of 17 years.

Gals, your initial reaction could be a “what the fuck are you doing” – which will surely lead to a potential high point drowning, or it could be “Hmmm – let me finish what you started”.

I’d suggest the second alternative – for a few reasons. First, it says: I’m confident – I’m better at this than you – that’s what I’m here for – I want to help. Let’s linger on this last one, and really just the few words of “I want to..”

Those words when coupled with the physical connection are mesmerizing. It demonstrates your desire for him, and that as I’ll try to express through most of these kinky sex tips is the #1 sex tip of all time.

Desire.

And that’s Kinky Sex Tip #3 – it’s not about your guy masturbating, and it’s not about you finishing the job – it’s desire.

Guys want to be wanted. They want to feel like their sexual satisfaction is important to you. There are a thousands ways to reveal this to your man, but nothing says it quite like “I’m going to make you come, because I enjoy it – I want to – I love it”.

Now, take it a step further – instead of it being reactionary – make a plan out of it. Go to your favorite porn site and look up something racy to play that will last a few minutes – maybe it’s a full on scene, maybe it’s a compilation video. Put your laptop on the bed and let it play – and tell your beau to come into the room for a minute.

After he comes in, he’ll be quite startled, but as you tell him to lay back, and take care of him, I can promise you – he’ll be ecstatic. You know that feeling you get after losing track of your orgasms – that’s where he’ll be.

Demonstrating desire has an immeasurable affect on a relationship. You can be as slutty or sweet as you want to. Your individual creativity will set the moment(s) apart. Desire also has one of the highest ROI’s of all relational aspects. What you give – you are bound to receive.

:: Kinky Sex Tip #1

Now, every scene is not going to be earth shattering – and they don’t have to be. Sometimes, what’s needed is a good quickie up against the wall – but you need to become masters in the craft of making sure she can’t walk after sex too.

It takes a desire to put her pleasure ahead of yours. It requires patience and creativity. It means you have to listen to her aches, her moans, and her gasping.

To facilitate placing her amongst the stars, you’ll have to either continue to play after you come, or put your pleasure off for a while. Become familiar with various instruments, because one orgasm isn’t going to do it. Two ain’t gonna cut it either.

No, to reach this level of erotic ecstasy, both of you need to lose count. They need to come in waves. Clitoral – G Spot – Vaginal – Anal – Squirting – not in that particular order, and more than one from each.

But it will also require that you pay close attention to her in aftercare as well. Because she’s likely to be cold. She’s likely to not be able to walk (which is what we were hoping for after all). She may not be coherent for some time as she drifts back to earth.